7 Benefits of Hands-Free Sex Toys

Sometimes, it is nice to let the toy do the work.

Although handheld sex toys can be great, you normally have to keep holding them, moving them and trying to keep them in the right place. With a hands-free toy, you can get everything set up and then relax while the toy provides the movement.

That is one of the main reasons sex machines have become so popular. They can keep a steady rhythm, the speed can be changed to suit you, and many models can be adjusted into different positions and depth.

You can use them on your own or with a partner, depending on what you enjoy.

Here are seven reasons why a hands-free sex toy might be worth trying.

What is a hands-free sex toy?

A hands-free sex toy is a toy that doesn’t need to be held the whole time you’re using it.

Sex machines have their own frame or stand, which holds the toy in place and provides the movement.

Motorised sex machines use an electric motor to move an attachment backwards and forwards. Body-powered machines work differently, as the person rocking or moving their body provides the movement.

1. You can relax more

One of the biggest benefits is that you do not have to keep holding or moving the toy by hand.

Once you have put the machine in a comfortable position, it provides the movement for you. You can lie back, relax and just enjoy yourself.

You’re still in control and can change the speed or position whenever you like, but your hand and arm don’t have to do all the work.

This can make a big difference during longer sessions, especially if you normally find that your hand or arm starts to get tired.

2. It keeps a steady rhythm

Keeping exactly the same rhythm with a handheld toy can be difficult.

You might slow down without realising it, change the angle or start to get tired. A motorised sex machine can keep moving at the same speed until you decide to change it.

This is ideal if you enjoy steady, repeated movement.

This also means you can try different settings, and you can leave it on one setting for a while and see how it feels, before changing to another setting.

3. You control the speed and movement

Hands-free doesn’t mean that the machine takes over completely.

Most motorised sex machines come with controls that let you change the speed. Depending on the model, you can also adjust the stroke length, movement pattern, angle and position.

You might prefer:

• A slow, steady rhythm

• A faster movement

• A short stroke

• A deeper stroke

• Different movement patterns

• A mix of speeds

A remote control can make things even easier because you can keep it close by and change the settings without having to move out of position.

The Thumpr® sex-machine range includes compact and full-size models with different speed, stroke and positioning options.

4. Your hands are free

This one may sound obvious, but it opens up lots of possibilities.

When using a machine on your own, your hands are free to use another toy, move the remote, change your position or simply relax.

With a partner, neither person has to spend the whole time holding and moving a toy. You can both be more involved and enjoy the experience together.

The machine does not have to be the main focus. It can simply be another fun part of what you are doing.

5. They can be used alone or with a partner

Sex machines can be enjoyed on your own, but they can also be a fun addition for couples.

The machine keeps the movement going, which means one person does not have to maintain the same rhythm themselves. This can make it easier to try different positions or enjoy a longer session.

Choosing the attachment, speed and position together can also become part of the fun.

As with anything involving a partner, it is important to talk about what you both want before you begin. Make sure you agree on the speed, position and personal boundaries.

Keep the controls close by so either person can slow down or stop the machine when needed.

6. You can try different positions

It can be difficult to keep a handheld toy in exactly the right place, especially when you are also trying to move or relax.

Many sex machines let you change the height, angle, distance and stroke length. This gives you more freedom to find a position that works for you.

Different machines suit different spaces and ways of using them.

The Thumpr® A3 PRO is a larger model with a sturdy frame and a wider range of movement.

The Thumpr® A5 COMPACT is smaller and easier to move or store.

The Thumpr® A6 COMPACT gives you extra angle adjustment, which means you have more choice for positioning the machine.

7. You can use different attachments

Many sex machines can be used with a range of compatible attachments.

Depending on the connection system, you may be able to use:

• Different sizes and styles of dildo

• Toy holders

• Adaptors

• Clamps

• Extension rods

• Masturbator attachments

Changing the attachment can give you a completely different experience without needing to buy another machine.

Thumpr® motorised machines use the Clic Loc™ connection system, which makes it quick and easy to swap compatible attachments.

You can see the available options in the Thumpr® sex-machine attachments collection.

Always switch the machine off and wait until it has fully stopped before changing or adjusting an attachment.

What about body-powered machines?

Not every hands-free sex machine needs a motor.

A body-powered machine moves when you rock/move your body, so you control the speed and rhythm through your own movement rather than using buttons or a remote.

One example is The Thumpr® ROCKER sex machine.

It doesn’t need to be plugged in and there is no motor noise.

It does take a little more physical effort than an automatic machine as you have to do the work, but lots of people enjoy having direct control over every movement.

Can hands-free toys be easier to use?

For some people, they can be.

Holding and moving a toy for a long time can become tiring. A hands-free machine removes a lot of the repeated hand and arm movement.

This may be helpful for people who have limited grip strength, become tired easily or find handheld toys uncomfortable to use for long periods.

Everyone is different, though, and sex machines are not medical devices. The most important thing is choosing a setup that feels comfortable and keeping the controls within easy reach.

Are sex machines difficult to set up?

Most sex machines are much easier to set up than people expect.

Depending on the model, you may need to attach part of the frame, position the machine and fit your chosen attachment.

Once it is set up, the controls are normally straightforward.

Before using the machine:

• Read the instructions that are included.

• Check the frame to make sure it feels steady.

• Check that the adjustment points are secure.

• Make sure the attachment is fitted properly.

• Keep the controls close enough to reach.

• Keep hair, fingers and loose clothing away from moving parts.

It is always worth taking a few minutes to try the controls before getting into position.

You can find more information about setup, delivery, warranties and general use in the Thumpr® FAQs.

How do you choose the right one?

Start by thinking about where you will use the machine and what you want from it.

Things to consider include:

• How much space you have

• Where you will store it

• Whether you want an electric or body-powered machine

• Whether you prefer a compact or full-size frame

• How much adjustment you want

• Which attachments you would like to use

• Whether you want a remote control

There is no single model that will be right for everyone.

A compact machine may suit you if you want something lighter and easier to store. A full-size model may be better if you want a larger frame and more adjustment options. A body-powered machine may suit you if you want to control the movement yourself.

It is also worth reading reviews from someone who has actually assembled and used the machines.

You can read Joanne’s independent Thumpr® reviews to find out more about the setup, controls, noise and performance of the different models.

Are hands-free sex toys worth trying?

If you like the idea of steady movement, adjustable settings and not having to hold a toy the whole time, a hands-free toy could be great fun.

They can be used alone or with a partner, and you can change the speed, position and attachment to suit what you enjoy.

The right machine depends on your space, the type of movement you prefer and how you plan to use it.

You can compare the different options in the complete Thumpr® range of sex machines.